We always record our children's milestones. All of their little (and big) accomplishments lovingly noted in the baby books. I love to look back and see where my kids were and how far they have come. I love to remember what they used to be like and I often feel sad to see how much they have changed.
I thought that as a parent I was done reaching milestones, but I realized that even I can still have my own little victories.
The other day I was able to tell someone about Lily and her diagnosis without CRYING!
For some reason it is really difficult for me to tell someone about the actual diagnosis. I can answer all kinds of questions and talk about it until I am blue in the face, but having to break the news to someone? Torture!
So when I was able to explain Lily's diagnosis without so much as shedding a tear, I felt like I had crossed into new territory. A place where finding out that my child has Cri Du Chat is not the end of the world.
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That is really a cause for celebration! As a mom you just want the best of everything for your children and when things don't go as planned...well, your heart just aches for them, but you are growing stronger and will be able to be the mom your little ones need. And soon, if not already, you will be so proud to tell people that despite all she has gone through, whatever that diagnosis is, look at how amazing she is and how far you have all grown. Sorry so long, but I am just really proud of you!
Aw that is really neat. You are probably finding yourself stronger than you ever realized. I can't wait to see you and your sweet little kids this weekend!
That is awesome! It's ok that you cry, your her mommy you would have any strong emotion towards her no matter what it may be. Lils has a good mom!!!
I think one of the benefits of us getting Olivia's diagnosis later (she was over two years old) is that I'd gotten so used to telling people, with a smile, "Oh, she's just got some physical delays." And by the time I could actually put a name to what was wrong with her, she was already showing all that she could do. As Lily grows and starts amazing you with everything she can do, you'll be so proud of her you'll want the world to know what's she's overcome to get to where she is. But like McKinley said, it's okay to cry too, to be sad that Lily has to work so hard. You're doing a great job with all your kids.
good for you! That's a big one!!
You are such a strong person, I am so glad we are good enough friends to stay in touch even though you live like sooooo far away now! Well comparatively speaking that is, lol.
great post brittany!
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